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Today I just read an interesting article regarding love vs material. Well It's simply caught my attention because it's all about men vs women. Most articles are showing more about women's side (Point of view) not from the perspective of men. It's like what do women want? or What kind of requirement that most women need in men? So anyway on this article that I read, was more focusing on the perspective of men and that's what makes it more interesting.
In today's society our definition of love seems needs to be equivalent to who we are attracted to, who has the most style, how much money that they have or what car that he drives? Love in our society is purely based on materialism at the moment. The environment that we had is continuously driving us into mass the need of more food, more cars, gadgets, homes, etc which we can never be able to satisfy our life and needs.
Remember the saying the grass is always greener on the other side? We want what we called better things in life and we demand them for ourselves from our loved ones. Slowly but sure we consumed by our love of materialism with the temptation which is always waiting, gleaming for you to take the taste of luxurious living. We are starting to demand this from our partners and from our relationships. It's like saying if you love me, you would need to buy me a diamond. If you love me you would buy me expensive things and take me out for a fancy dinner during the weekend.
From the article that I read, top common answer from this one simple question from a man to a woman about choosing between Wealth vs Love are:
- "I need to be realistic, I need wealth to survive"
- " Wealth is very damn Important for living"
- "We can't eat love so we need money"
- "money is not everything but everything needs money"
Yeah as a man we all understand that money is important however how much money do you think that is enough for you to guarantee your financial security which allows you to say the man is good enough. So how about this one, we give you another question what can a woman can give back to a man ? If we are also saying that love can't be eaten. this is from men's perspective:
- "I can give you my love and care the most for him"
My mom's love is more sincere than you even though I'm poor, stupid, and broke she still regards us as her son so there is no need to be rich first to get the son status.
- "I can give you my body and sex"
Hey girls if men are only looking for sex there is no need for us to wait until marriage, we may go to some certain highlighted place to look for it.
- "I can look beautiful and make you not bored with me"
Again beautiful is a common thing, We can find a lot of beautiful girls in a mall. Once again if we got money and are looking for a beautiful women, we can find them in many places. Another thing, beautiful is a bad investment since it will gradually decrease through time. Again if we are looking for a beautiful section, we are allowed to leave you eventually if you're old and not beautiful anymore.
- "We can give you descendant"
Well that's true however if it's all about kids from you and then what?
So we are talking about equality between men and women, If most women want a well established men for a future financial stability, what can women offer to most men?
Is it Love?
Hello girls, men are also aware that we can't eat love.
then..
What do most men want from most women?
Was it clear enough? Men need a companion and partner to spend their rest of their life, who is not afraid about any kind of condition, who will cherish every kind of situation to always stay on their side.
A responsible man will surely take care of your daily needs without you telling him.
We are talking a man who has a fixed job not the jobless. When it comes to love, men will do extramiles just to fill up the family daily needs like food, money for kids and family and of course place to stay. So please be fair too for most men since they're also trying their best to please you.
Last word...
Look for a partner that has a proper job and earnings at least he is able to fill up their own needs and that is not a materialistic.. It is a realistic.
We all know most women are seeking a partner that is able to accommodate their lifestyle so they can relax and enjoying their life and furthermore they seek to show their glamor lifestyle to their communities and that's what we called materialistic.
One simple thing if you want to have more money and relax, do it yourself, try your best and achieve it. why you need to have somebody pleased you?
Before you asked more to your partner, check yourself on the mirror about what can you offer to your partner with your current self? because it's all about equality.
So until then this is just another guy opinion that I read from an article in a forum however I agree with the writer *#Ehhhh
Don't blame me for writing this okay, since I'm currently single too. hahaha.. I am not complaining, it's just the girls' requirement are getting higher and higher so it's better for me to stay like this, enjoying myself and planning my next travel destination.
So until then thank you for reading!
Cheers :)
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Today I just read an interesting article regarding love vs material. Well It's simply caught my attention because it's all about men vs women. Most articles are showing more about women's side (Point of view) not from the perspective of men. It's like what do women want? or What kind of requirement that most women need in men? So anyway on this article that I read, was more focusing on the perspective of men and that's what makes it more interesting.
In today's society our definition of love seems needs to be equivalent to who we are attracted to, who has the most style, how much money that they have or what car that he drives? Love in our society is purely based on materialism at the moment. The environment that we had is continuously driving us into mass the need of more food, more cars, gadgets, homes, etc which we can never be able to satisfy our life and needs.
Remember the saying the grass is always greener on the other side? We want what we called better things in life and we demand them for ourselves from our loved ones. Slowly but sure we consumed by our love of materialism with the temptation which is always waiting, gleaming for you to take the taste of luxurious living. We are starting to demand this from our partners and from our relationships. It's like saying if you love me, you would need to buy me a diamond. If you love me you would buy me expensive things and take me out for a fancy dinner during the weekend.
From the article that I read, top common answer from this one simple question from a man to a woman about choosing between Wealth vs Love are:
- "I need to be realistic, I need wealth to survive"
- " Wealth is very damn Important for living"
- "We can't eat love so we need money"
- "money is not everything but everything needs money"
Yeah as a man we all understand that money is important however how much money do you think that is enough for you to guarantee your financial security which allows you to say the man is good enough. So how about this one, we give you another question what can a woman can give back to a man ? If we are also saying that love can't be eaten. this is from men's perspective:
- "I can give you my love and care the most for him"
My mom's love is more sincere than you even though I'm poor, stupid, and broke she still regards us as her son so there is no need to be rich first to get the son status.
- "I can give you my body and sex"
Hey girls if men are only looking for sex there is no need for us to wait until marriage, we may go to some certain highlighted place to look for it.
- "I can look beautiful and make you not bored with me"
Again beautiful is a common thing, We can find a lot of beautiful girls in a mall. Once again if we got money and are looking for a beautiful women, we can find them in many places. Another thing, beautiful is a bad investment since it will gradually decrease through time. Again if we are looking for a beautiful section, we are allowed to leave you eventually if you're old and not beautiful anymore.
- "We can give you descendant"
Well that's true however if it's all about kids from you and then what?
So we are talking about equality between men and women, If most women want a well established men for a future financial stability, what can women offer to most men?
Is it Love?
Hello girls, men are also aware that we can't eat love.
then..
What do most men want from most women?
Was it clear enough? Men need a companion and partner to spend their rest of their life, who is not afraid about any kind of condition, who will cherish every kind of situation to always stay on their side.
A responsible man will surely take care of your daily needs without you telling him.
We are talking a man who has a fixed job not the jobless. When it comes to love, men will do extramiles just to fill up the family daily needs like food, money for kids and family and of course place to stay. So please be fair too for most men since they're also trying their best to please you.
Last word...
Look for a partner that has a proper job and earnings at least he is able to fill up their own needs and that is not a materialistic.. It is a realistic.
We all know most women are seeking a partner that is able to accommodate their lifestyle so they can relax and enjoying their life and furthermore they seek to show their glamor lifestyle to their communities and that's what we called materialistic.
One simple thing if you want to have more money and relax, do it yourself, try your best and achieve it. why you need to have somebody pleased you?
Before you asked more to your partner, check yourself on the mirror about what can you offer to your partner with your current self? because it's all about equality.
So until then this is just another guy opinion that I read from an article in a forum however I agree with the writer *#Ehhhh
Don't blame me for writing this okay, since I'm currently single too. hahaha.. I am not complaining, it's just the girls' requirement are getting higher and higher so it's better for me to stay like this, enjoying myself and planning my next travel destination.
So until then thank you for reading!
Cheers :)
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