Someone that won't change you

I was reading this article on my Facebook this morning. It caught my eyes because of the title called "Date Someone You Don`t have to impress". Well I always tried my best to impress, to satisfy and to become someone that she wanted or she desired. However It just didn`t work out anymore for me and I felt tired. I dated many girls back then because I am looking for the one. I dated a girl that far more superior and out of my league until a girl who was really not my type (this girl got rejected from my friend and family as well but I still liked her). Each one of the girls that I dated got pro and cons. Since everyone of them are not perfect so there will always be a multiple kind of personality there. Hahhaa it is kinda funny considering I was not popular back then. During my school year (before uni) I dated 3 times with 3 different girls from 3 different school then during college year I dated 2 girls which I thought one of them would be my end point of my uncertain relationship but it wasn`t. from that on I can't count how many girls I dated until this one.

Somepoints that I could really observe are this one

• Date someone you can be goofy with. at some points of life I am getting tired of trying so hard to please girls because I need to act and speak as if I am that kind of person. 
• Date someone who is impressed by originality, by authenticity and by how real you are. This section is still related to the first one. I'll say just quit of trying to become someone else because sooner or later you'll be tired of it since I am original, and so are you, just be yourself dude!
• Date someone you can be too honest with. Honestly I love to lie if I can get something better, however in my case now everything that I've ever wanted is already in her. So why should I bother to lie since no one is special enough to spend my time with other than she. She is just Someone you can trust with all your secrets and feel comfortable telling them about all the crazy stories that you held inside. Someone who listens and tries to understand, someone who tries to understand without judging and someone who doesn’t expect you to have a spotless life or a spotless past. Date someone who doesn’t make you afraid of sharing your personal secrets or saying you don’t know something.
• Date someone you don’t have to impress because they’re already impressed by you and who you are, by being with you and by loving you I thought all girls are need to be pleased and impressed. Since I got some experiences of dating girls who like to be impressed it will be either material or non material. at the end of the day I could play all night long just to get the attention. Those kind of girls won't suit your qualification as a long term girl friend and future partner.
• Date someone who still thinks you’re hot when you’re tired and pale and barely speaking, date someone who finds your quirks endearing.  Was at the moment when I didn`t have much to bring her out. She was willingly paid for the bills and felt fine. She's still with me and feeling the same too.

me & her 

Dating for me it was a race back then, a race where I need to compete and win her heart and attention. I liked this girl once, she was my highschool friend. I liked her already when we were in the same school. However we didn't have the moment back then, always not in a perfect time so we didn't become together that time. deep down inside there was a regret back then. Until I went back from college and met her again, I thought we were having a moment. We went out, we share kisses (unexpectedly but still it's a kiss) and I thought I was on this race just to win her out. Until I realize the prize of this game was regret and I forfeit the game just to move on.
When I met my current girlfriend, I don't have to compete for their attention because I got her attention, I don't have to work on my materials just because she won't accept me, and I don't have to learn more skills so she can approve of me. All those stupid thought of having a girlfriend just suddenly changed and gone. I love how she treats me everytime I am with her. She makes me feel special. We share moments and we plan for our future. I hope I can share more stories with you.

It is a beautiful article and well written as well, you can try and read it as well. I put the links already on the first paragraph of the text.