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You hear a lot of advice before you get married.
"Keep a date night."
"Never go to bed angry."
"Make your relationship the first priority."
"Don't walk out during an argument."
Actually choosing whom you are going to marry is more important since good enough it`s not enough for this. For me I never knew that I would come this far and my time has come when I should take my guts to take my relationship to a whole new level. I was not like this, I always believed that it`s hard to find a girl friend because the lacked of confidence that I had back then. Surely it didn`t give me an easier life with that attitude.
As making the right choice is not easy to make because there are so many obstacles, sad moment, bad experience and bad choices that we would make first before finding the right choices. If you read my last post about some people are only meant to touch our lives even though it will just for a short period of time. It was the moment where I stayed inside the world that we made together with that girl, we were actually never been able to be together. We stayed, i believed we were meant to be each other and that`s why i worked bluntly to achieve my success. But then I realized the world was just inside my head or I could say it`s only exist inside our head. The world that I mentioned, I left it a long time ago.
After that I went to chill out for a while, and burying those memories then looking forward. then a few years passed, the singleness actually reflected me to be someone better. I learned if I want to meet somebody that love me the way I am, I need to first accept myself and be the one that somebody needs the most.
Then I finally came a cross with someone, we started as a stranger and we developed that small things into a big whole memories. At first I wasn't so sure that I was ready, however I talked to her and we decided to start our relationship. Few things that I learned so far
I decided to make peace - For me humility is still a difficult choice for me, I've learned that when I'm wrong, I should quickly and genuinely admit to it, apologize and move on. "Why should I argue with you if it will cost me you"
We chose to be with each other - We began realizing how often we expected more from each other than we were willing to give at first. We knew we could either continue to selfishly demand our way, or we could selflessly surrender to one another. We struggled a lot on this part since I am a very hard headed person and I have a tough principle to stand. Again I realized that principle will not be so important anymore if I lose the relationship.
We chose to embrace our difference - We've accepted each other's differences, and we've learned not to make major issues out of minor faults. Too often I had some trouble with her about timing or rushing, well I am slow because I have my own timing and I particularly discipline with my time so she like to rush me every time. Until the time when she's getting used to my 'wonderful habits' as I am slowly accepting her 'wonderful habits' too.
We chose mutual submission - We support and encourage each other in every situation and difficulties because at the end of the day we are meant for each other. since it's not good for men to be alone right?
Well relationship surely needs a hard work and continuously learning as well. Experience is not enough you need a hard work too and relationship will not work if only one of you that does the hard work. I might work on other topics on my next post like how to make your relationship stronger. It is good if you can plan a holiday together or you can read my other post about how do I feel about traveling. My recommendation for cheap flights will be on Via.com where you can look for any direct flights too. Please do visit them here
Anyway it's pretty much about everything and I am engaged by the way so it pretty much sums up about my post. :D
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| My fiancee |
As making the right choice is not easy to make because there are so many obstacles, sad moment, bad experience and bad choices that we would make first before finding the right choices. If you read my last post about some people are only meant to touch our lives even though it will just for a short period of time. It was the moment where I stayed inside the world that we made together with that girl, we were actually never been able to be together. We stayed, i believed we were meant to be each other and that`s why i worked bluntly to achieve my success. But then I realized the world was just inside my head or I could say it`s only exist inside our head. The world that I mentioned, I left it a long time ago.
After that I went to chill out for a while, and burying those memories then looking forward. then a few years passed, the singleness actually reflected me to be someone better. I learned if I want to meet somebody that love me the way I am, I need to first accept myself and be the one that somebody needs the most.
Then I finally came a cross with someone, we started as a stranger and we developed that small things into a big whole memories. At first I wasn't so sure that I was ready, however I talked to her and we decided to start our relationship. Few things that I learned so far
I decided to make peace - For me humility is still a difficult choice for me, I've learned that when I'm wrong, I should quickly and genuinely admit to it, apologize and move on. "Why should I argue with you if it will cost me you"
We chose to be with each other - We began realizing how often we expected more from each other than we were willing to give at first. We knew we could either continue to selfishly demand our way, or we could selflessly surrender to one another. We struggled a lot on this part since I am a very hard headed person and I have a tough principle to stand. Again I realized that principle will not be so important anymore if I lose the relationship.
We chose to embrace our difference - We've accepted each other's differences, and we've learned not to make major issues out of minor faults. Too often I had some trouble with her about timing or rushing, well I am slow because I have my own timing and I particularly discipline with my time so she like to rush me every time. Until the time when she's getting used to my 'wonderful habits' as I am slowly accepting her 'wonderful habits' too.
We chose mutual submission - We support and encourage each other in every situation and difficulties because at the end of the day we are meant for each other. since it's not good for men to be alone right?
Well relationship surely needs a hard work and continuously learning as well. Experience is not enough you need a hard work too and relationship will not work if only one of you that does the hard work. I might work on other topics on my next post like how to make your relationship stronger. It is good if you can plan a holiday together or you can read my other post about how do I feel about traveling. My recommendation for cheap flights will be on Via.com where you can look for any direct flights too. Please do visit them here
Anyway it's pretty much about everything and I am engaged by the way so it pretty much sums up about my post. :D
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